That is why I love our meetings, we are ourselves, we are a family. We do not burden each other with expectations that are not Biblical. If someone cannot come, we realize there must be a reason. If I have to meet with someone instead, it is understood I have a divine appointment and instead of receiving criticism, I know I can count on their prayers.
Now, it is hard not to put an unnecessary burden on each other, we have so much baggage we bring from past experiences!
My prayer is that we learn to live our freedom in Christ and act on it in relation to our brothers and sisters. Help me, God!